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The College Disparity-Co-Ed or Single-Sex?!

I go to an all-girls school, and six years spent there believe it or not has definitely made me feel that Men have been eradicated from the surface of this earth! Were it not for the private tuition we take, God- I wonder if I would have even acknowledge their presence!

Students studying in single gender education schools have a greater comfort level with members of their own sex. This leads to a more active participation in classroom, I have noticed how they are freer about expressing their opinions in class. Also, there are fewer opportunities for ego clashes between students that arise due to the differences in male and female viewpoints. But hey! Those differences will only get amplified once I'm detached from my highly feminine niche to this alien world of people with..Pfftt Let it be! :/

Single-gender colleges do not present any opportunities for students to become side-tracked by relationships with members of the opposite sex. This lack of diversion makes for an atmosphere that is conducive to learning and it naturally follows that students concentrate attention and energy on education. Greater focus results in better academic performance, which would lead to better job opportunities-but hell I'm going to meet up with men there right? What to do you expect me to do with all those fat certificates and medals when I can't talk to a Man- broach a difficult subject and put my point forward?! Not to mention the misunderstandings that might pop up because of our huge differences in the way the two sexes interpret things!!

Seriously, for people who don't know the educational system of our island-well I think that it would be interesting for you to note that our educational system is quite a funny thing!Co-educational schooling reigns supreme in pre-primary, primary and tertiary level but in secondary schooling-it's single-sex school which takes the golden crown! What is ironical for me about it is that- during the very phase where girls and boys are interested to discover the opposite sex, well they are en-caged separately in two different zoos! Why?!

I still have not been able to get a pertinent answer from any of our elderly population who apparently are the ones upholding that culture! I never thought of Mauritius as a conservative society. Well, after some thorough reflection-I do now! What could be some reasons? What is so bad about Co-Educational schools that some fear to advocate it?

Because believe me- today I firmly stand as someone who can only see the beauty of women. I mean I have never learnt how to praise a man! My world revolves around the curvy ladies- whom believe me are way easier to woo and fall in love with! I love women! Hhaha.. Hey Oldie, you were fearing heterosexual intimate relationships right?! Here, catch! I'm a teenage-and I'm going to transgress the rules no matter what!- Homosexuality is a reality!- Thanks to YOU! :p HAH!

Unless I'm being too much of a fool, single-sex schools definitely do not provide a “normal” environment that’s reflective of society. I mean, once I'm done with school, I'm not going to be exported to a matriarchal circus where no male exists-worst it's in a patriarch that I'm going to have to live in!

And by the way, somewhere down the line I think that- By discouraging interaction between boys and girls, the respect that naturally develops when both sexes interact regularly disappears! Oh dear, That Old Mr. Chivalry! 

But guess what?  Forget everything I said! Single-Sex Schools are the BEST! Yes they are! You may not be interacting with the opposite sexes right now- but they are not going to die either- BUT your time to shine is! ;)

I think that Girls find it easier to study subjects such as physics and computers in an environment where they don't have to compete with boys. Boys also have the freedom to take courses or participate in activities seen as "non-macho" such as poetry, dramatics, art history and music without having to worry about their image. Besides it helps get on with school work… There’s no trying to impress the other (sex) and competing for boyfriends. From personal experience I know that in single-sex schools, academically inclined children are not made fun of as they do not have the pressure to socialise and date – they feel more comfortable in single-sex schools.
And as a mater of fact, I think that concern about not enough interaction with the other sex has decreased with social networks which means that we no more rely on the schooling environment to facilitate that social aspect of our life. 

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