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At times I wish my friend's houses were connected to mine by secret tunnels.

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People come together and unite as friends for various reasons. We usually take the gregarious side of human nature for granted, but to understand the nature and importance of friendship it’s instructive to reflect on the factors that bring people together and unite them as friends. 

In our world, I know some who befriend others because of the money, the status, the good gains, the prestige. In high school, it's the best athlete, the prettiest girls, the student council members..(that one had rather befriend.)

Others unite because of their common likings, their common thinking grounds and the feel good factor. We can see that on a given Saturday night many people will go out to night clubs to enjoy themselves dancing; others will go to bars to enjoy drinking and chatting together; others might go to sports matches; others will get together and watch crude films. That is what unites them in friendship. 
"I used to be so mean and felt that everyone in the world deserved to be hurt.…

"Here's a condom. I figured since you're acting like a dick you should start to dress like one."

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(The above title's a quote from Tumblr.)

*To fellow readers:
This article might perhaps be extremely vulgar, dauntingly critical of a particular species and biased.
I apologise for the content that might be blatantly false for some- but they've been more than a consolidated truth for me. However this stays an astronomically exaggerated Account and it doesn't apply to all the guys out there.*
Yes. Boys are a species that I'm never ever gonna adore. I might admire, love or respect them. But adoration is something that I doubt I would be able to feel for them-although I’m not ashamed to admit that I did adore one for a while (No, it’s not the imaginary friend this time -_-). But let’s forget about that- it’s passé now.
To cut it short-It takes a lot more than you think to tolerate boys. I wonder how some do that though. Perhaps it's because they are so love blinded. But Boys-like in BOYS normally disgust me.
Normally. Because I've met some who have weirdly been an exce…

When a woman no longer gets frustrated and upset with you, you can almost guarantee that she no longer cares.

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Girls like to talk. And talk. And talk. Oftentimes we just yammer on to a point-and with boys we aren't even dating. Chances are that almost every time you two talk, it's initiated by her, and she's the one doing most of the communicating. For the most part, nothing can get a girl to shut up if she feels like talking. I mean, even when they're mad and don't want to talk to you, they repeatedly tell you that they don't want to talk to you (Aha! A clue, Sherlock! +Maheemah Sonia Bokhoree ). But anyways, long story short: when she stops trying to talk to you, well, she no longer cares.
Remember how every time you hung out with your best female friend she'd throw a fit, claiming that if you really loved her you wouldn't hang out with other girls all the time? Well believe it or not, that was good. Jealousy meant she cared. If she starts letting you with whomever you want, without any sort of protest or snide comments, well you'd best believe you are no l…

A crumbled sheet from a diary.

When you love someone, you grant them total freedom to be who they are, for this is the greatest gift you could give them, and love always gives the greatest gift. And that is only what he’s doing. But why am I feeling bad about it?! I was expecting things. Sure I was. I can’t lie to you Abhi. I wanted you to say things I wanted to hear. But that’s not the way things work right?!
Talking to him became a drug long back. I knew this 5 months ago. I always knew this. I know this still today. I knew that I had to stop back then even. But I didn’t. I wanted to venture in waters I never felt comfortable in and longed to dive into. But this time I think I did take a deep dive!
I have to return back. That’s all I know. I felt aghast when he laid the Ego Game before me. He didn’t use to do that!  He just started to do it!
That’s guys I guess, pulling out the wrong cards at the wrong times! Pfftt.. Why can’t they just say things spontaneously?! Were it to keep things in check, I had understood- but …

Possessive Girl Friends or Caring Girlfriends

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I believe that girls have this natural maternal instinct. This obviously propulses us to care for others and to be compassionate and understanding. This often leads us to give part of us easily, not expecting much in return. And I think that somewhere down the line, guys know how to take advantage of this caring nature without really meaning to- often it's an unconscious act.
“With closest custody, guard your heart, for in it are the sources of life.”

But I think in the process, we should make it a conscious decision not to always cave in to this primal instinct-To always be the protective wings and with expectations to have the egg hatching beneath it to become yours or even love you back…It’s not necessarily romantic love that I’m trying to conjure up over here.. But about those daily help, advices, affection we offer even to our little sister, to the stranger in the bus or to the hot guy with a serious relationship problem…We tend to think that the wings of love that we built is …

Stuck between MY Wolf and MY Lion..

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The Following is from a Guest Blogger :)
"How weird it is that I can hardly refrain from thinking about them:my wolf and my lion. I spend my time making perfect scenario with them in my mind…Sometimes, I am with my wolf, feeling very happy and then.. .I feel the tingle of jealousy from someone else…yes, my lion…the same lion with whom,sometimes, I imagine myself having a mad laugh(as we usually do) but I just can’t take my wolf out of the picture…well, right now, I’m finding this really funny and stupid…but, I’m loving it because... I love both my lion and my wolf distinctively yet in very special ways.




My wolf, I believe, came into my life to make me discover myself. My wolf helped me to break out of my shell and voice out my thoughts, my opinions, my fears(though my wolf was kind of shocked when I confided in it.) But, simultaneously, I became kind of really attached to my wolf. I was really thinking of my wolf like 24/7.


Then, came my lion…He had been of great help to me to loo…

Platonic Friendship Or Romantic Relationship?

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"I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. And I met my guy best friend about 8 months ago. My best friend finally came out to me the other day that he has had feeling for me since we met.


Now it might seem selfish, but my boyfriend and I rarely hang out or barely even talk most days. I still love him, but I'm tired of being last on his priority list. While my boyfriend has been out, my best friend and I have gotten closer as friends. He is always there, when my boyfriend isn't.
I know I am selfish for putting both of them through this, but I have fallen for my best friend and I still love my boyfriend."- Quoted Excerpt 


As I got older , society made it clear that Girls and Boys can’t be “JUST FRIENDS”. Whether it is about the weekly ZOom, Planet Bollywood, Simi Garewal’s exaggerated interpretation of “Just Friends” or the fact that we are suddenly pulsated into single sex schools at puberty-  it keeps telling me that every guy/girl relationship has an underlying cu…

Because being honest and being frank are two poles apart!

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*I have been meaning to write this since 3 weeks now.*

I wonder why people take it for granted that they can do anything to you and say anything to you! Honestly, how can people be that honest?! I don't get it! Now, just so that I get over this- we had rather just start!


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I think that each one of us has been frank at least once in our life! 

Frankness broadcasts itself as a means for people to soothe their inability to contain their comments. 

Because want it or not- Frankness in comparison to honesty is a bad thing. Basically because being frank hurts the object and makes the subject feel good, whilst honesty-well honesty is good for both!



Being frank is a stupendo fantabulously fantastic thing for many of us. It's been for me. Mainly because it allowed me to believe that I existed and it made me feel good- it made me feel good because I could put my opinions forward. But to be honest, I don't it's been the best thing to do! 


Frankness hurts. It does. And no- I'm not g…

The Relat-able Classmates Situations!

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Because we all have those friends with whom you communicate with the nudges, the eye contacts and the silences! :D
I wish my friend's houses were connected to mine by secret tunnels. 
*That's mostly often they seem to be the only ones appreciating the hilarious child my parents have been blessed with! Love Mom! Peace, One Love.*