I have been reading
8 ways to really make her happy
on Relationship Rules and I just thought of reviewing it! :)
HELPING MILLIONS OF HEARTS
1."Don’t
get frustrated during shopping."
To
this one, I'll agree! From 14 years of watching my parents I can tell you that
both my Mom and Dad had be a tad happier if Dad just stopped to get so
frustrated while shopping. It had so way better if he could help her out to
choose some clothing and even tell her if it went well on her.
2."Women
appreciate small gestures."
She still remembers to this day how I never
complained when we went shopping for the first time."
I
think that's mostly because we remember the tiniest details about the person we
love and having them reciprocate that is what ups the attraction.
3."Women
care more than men, accept it."
Errmm,
I'm not very well placed to say that for my Dad has cared equally as much as my
Mom. If not perhaps more. He normally is the one who cares when we get hurt or
get wounded or are even famished. In their relationship even, I have seen
my Dad care as much as my Mom cares. But I know that households are different.
I'm just very blessed to be having a Dad who is so invested into family life.
:)
4.
"Give her all of your attention."
Well,
yes! There are always those complains that you go out with your friends during
festivals instead of staying back home with us to spend some quality family
time. And even when he stays back, well he'll be very disappointed more like he
knows that he would have been so way better with his friends.
So
yeah- I think some investment into paying attention with a happy face would not
be that bad.
Mostly
I believe that communication is one of the most vital parts of a
relationship and you both need to work on it to make it last. It’s easy to lose
touch with communication and it’s very difficult to get it back. Women need to
know you’re there for them, that you actually listen to them when they have
something to say.
5.
"Enjoy her presence."
Ah-
this is a divine rule! I think that Men tend to take Women for granted. They
have this feeling that no matter what she'll be there. And this is often fueled
by the whole patriarchal feeling that she depends on me so she'll just have to
stay anyway. Often guys tend to forget that the world is evolving and no
women of today is going to wait for you. Relationships are no more build merely
on loyalty, trust and equity (the previous decade's rules). This decade has some
added rules and those are Communion, Communication, Care and Compassion. The 4
Cs.
So,
you really have to make her know you enjoy her presence and make her feel loved
and cared for. You have to make her feel like you truly revel in the atmosphere
she creates. If you are happy, she is happy. That I've seen in many couples. Be
it my grand-parents, uncles and aunts or my own parents. :)
6."Show
every possible bit of affection."
Women
love affection. Whatever we give we love.
7."Surprise
Her."
Well,
this I know many Men know of- at least my Dad does because he is never ever out
of surprises for my Mom. It 's just that well- PLEASANT surprises would be good
at times.. hehe xD
I
mean- Men really need to work on the type of surprises they bring up. It would
be so much greater, not that we don't appreciate that, but well- you know.. :3
8.
"Notice the little things."
Women
are very good with simple and deep gestures of love that most men just ignore,
don’t be one of those men!
“One
time, I was very tired and had to take an hour long nap before a Skype meeting.
So I asked her to wake me up. She woke me up in exactly one hour like I asked.
When I looked at my phone, I was surprised and shocked and I had a big fat
smile on my face. Right after I slept, she kept sending me very sweet text
messages after every five minutes until I woke up. One of them was, “I love you
and I know how hard you work and I support you with all of my life and love,
wake up smiling please”. Right after I read them, I called her and told her how
much I love and appreciate all of these little things she does for me. "
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