Remarks have been made on my attitude, at times - "too motherly". Can it be explained? [Pls, feel free to leave a comment if you can!] Let's give it time, though, and see if it changes.
I believe each one of us wants to feel the stiff, confident touch of a loved one. We need it, we need somebody to tell us it will be okay. We want somebody to trick us into believing there'll be dawn, no matter how impossible it sounds. For most of us, that one person is the mother or father, for others siblings and even friends. And this is where the protective "motherly" or "fatherly" instincts comes in use!
You do something stupid, your mum shouts at you. Similarly, I can happen to hold on to you massively, so if you do something stupid, you are getting shouted at! Even I'd like to get shouted at a few times for petty mistakes.
I do give warnings threateningly, I reckon. But that's for your own good! I wouldn't want you to hurt yourself, because often deep scars are left. And well, "prevention is better than cure".
I've recently seen the authoritative side of people who submit readily to me. They would make others shut up and abide only with words like "tu remets cà où c'était!" Honestly, what is more attractive that the fatherly instinct?! I can say I don't need a man around me, but if that's how a man can be, why not get one around?! Protectiveness is another "attractive" side - I like it that way, yes! I will keep doing stupid stuff, btw.
Being "motherly" doesn't give me control on my surrounding, though. Let's see if I succeed in turning into an authoritarian to a much large group!
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