Skip to main content

Should I give up?

I've liked my crush for a very long time now and we used to talk but then the communication stopped between us and so did the glances and stares at each other when we are in the hallway. This has stayed the same for about a month till this day apart from now he's trying to make eye contact with me but I just can't seem to catch his eye because when I feel him looking at me I look at him and that's when he's turning around so then I turn around then he does so I don't know If he likes me or not he did ignore me for about a month and now he is trying to make eye contact again so please help!! What should I do AND does he like me or not and was he interested then stopped and today he did try to make some form of communication cause when I was walking with my friends and he was walking the opposite way down he came closer and waved something in my face while saying something but I didn't understand what he said so...??


Answer:
First thing try to enquire what he said! Because it might be something important that would lead you knowing what you should do! Either ask your friends around what he said or walk up to him casually when you see and ask tell him that you did not catch what he said! Appear busy when you're asking him that like you've got to hurry somewhere but you just happened to have seen him and remembered that thing! 

Boys as a matter of fact tend to take time when they think they want to get into a serious relationship... 

The act of staring implies a visual focus, where the subject of the gaze is objectified. The notion of staring also implicates the looker in constructing themselves as a subject. They might be wanting to make themselves notice. 

If staring happens continuously, they want to check on your activities , knowing you better but from far.. normally guys do that when they really don't won't to spoil things with girls and want to know the girl beforehand so that they don't miss out a chance to amaze you! 

Staring someone normally pressurises the one being stared to look back. It might just be another way to win your attention. Especially when you do stare back and they continue staring or smile lightly with their eyes! 

Since he quickly looks away it might mean that he doesn't want you to know that he has been looking which means that he likes you but doesn't want to make a step. That's just because they are afraid to do something wrong and be rejected by you. 

Again try talking to him. Throw your self-respect for a while and talk to him(hard perhaps but worth it as it may help you know what to do: wait for him, forget him, move on or befriend him etc..) At least you would feel lighter! :) Follow the curious and instinctive nature! 

However, being stared at, especially for a prolonged amount of time or very frequently by one person in particular, can cause discomfort to those subjected to it. 
So you showing that you know they are staring you by trying to over exaggerate your discomfort e.g fiddling with your pencil/hair/ book.. or looking shyly away, May actually push him to come over to you or change the way he's trying to convey his message to you! 


But I'm sure that he likes you and that he started to feel really strong for you like ( in love type) and then he could not understand his own feelings and felt scared for a while! Not wanting to mess up things he distanced himself but obviously he's into you that's why he can't stop staring or waving at you! Soooo!!!! i think that you've got an admirer rather! Don't worry! It'll be OK!!! 

i REALLY hope that this works out for you! Muah, Love. God Bless! :)

Popular posts from this blog

If a guy stares at you for a long time while smiling does he like you?

There's this guy at my work who I've been starting to get to know better, and I've noticed that every time he sees me he always gets this big smile on his face and he stares at me all the time. He has this look in his eyes that I can't really explain but it seems like he's fascinated or dreamy. Plus I'll be doing something and I'll look over at him and catch him looking right over at me, and he just smiles and I smile back. Today as he was leaving work I saw him from a distance but I didn't say anything because I wasn't going to shout across the parking lot, and he just developed this big smile while looking right at me, and I couldn't help but smile too. Then he came over and we talked a little before he left (he seemed nervous and he's kind of dorky, but I think it's cute) I don't know, I just feel like he stares at me just a little longer than any other person. I was wondering if this could mean he likes me?

Comparing the lifestyles of celebrities and ordinary people

Disney’s TV Show Hannah Montana depicts the female protagonist’s choice of leading an ordinary life despite being a celebrity. The show fluidly walks us through the distinct lifestyles of a celebrity and that of an ordinary person in terms of their set of values, ways of life, activities and attitudes. Whether celebrities and ordinary people are truly different would require a close diagnostic. The first thing that comes to mind when discussing celebrity and common man’s lifestyles is luxury . From the sports industry to the entertainment industry, from politicians to business tycoons, the mantra “if you’ve got it, flaunt it” seems to be painted all over the walls that frame celebrity life. Because of the power and extraordinary amount of wealth they have, celebrities live a life that the normal man can only dream of. For instance, with real-estate assets worth more than just a few million dollars across the world, celebrities have better vacation options than an ordinary

Because being honest and being frank are two poles apart!

   *I have been meaning to write this since 3 weeks now.* I wonder why people take it for granted that they can do anything to you and say anything to you! Honestly, how can people be that honest?! I don't get it! Now, just so that I get over this- we had rather just start! , I think that each one of us has been frank at least once in our life!  Frankness broadcasts itself as a means for people to soothe their inability to contain their comments.  Because want it or not- Frankness in comparison to honesty is a bad thing. Basically because being frank hurts the object and makes the subject feel good, whilst honesty-well honesty is good for both! Being frank is a stupendo fantabulously fantastic thing for many of us. It's been for me. Mainly because it allowed me to believe that I existed and it made me feel good- it made me feel good because I could put my opinions forward. But to be honest, I don't it's been the best thing to do!  Frankness hurt