I've
liked my crush for a very long time now and we used to talk but then the
communication stopped between us and so did the glances and stares at each
other when we are in the hallway. This has stayed the same for about a month
till this day apart from now he's trying to make eye contact with me but I just
can't seem to catch his eye because when I feel him looking at me I look at him
and that's when he's turning around so then I turn around then he does so I
don't know If he likes me or not he did ignore me for about a month and now he
is trying to make eye contact again so please help!! What should I do AND does
he like me or not and was he interested then stopped and today he did try to
make some form of communication cause when I was walking with my friends and he
was walking the opposite way down he came closer and waved something in my face
while saying something but I didn't understand what he said so...??
Answer:
First thing try to enquire what he said! Because it might be something important that would lead you knowing what you should do! Either ask your friends around what he said or walk up to him casually when you see and ask tell him that you did not catch what he said! Appear busy when you're asking him that like you've got to hurry somewhere but you just happened to have seen him and remembered that thing!
Boys as a matter of fact tend to take time when they think they want to get into a serious relationship...
The act of staring implies a visual focus, where the subject of the gaze is objectified. The notion of staring also implicates the looker in constructing themselves as a subject. They might be wanting to make themselves notice.
If staring happens continuously, they want to check on your activities , knowing you better but from far.. normally guys do that when they really don't won't to spoil things with girls and want to know the girl beforehand so that they don't miss out a chance to amaze you!
Staring someone normally pressurises the one being stared to look back. It might just be another way to win your attention. Especially when you do stare back and they continue staring or smile lightly with their eyes!
Since he quickly looks away it might mean that he doesn't want you to know that he has been looking which means that he likes you but doesn't want to make a step. That's just because they are afraid to do something wrong and be rejected by you.
Again try talking to him. Throw your self-respect for a while and talk to him(hard perhaps but worth it as it may help you know what to do: wait for him, forget him, move on or befriend him etc..) At least you would feel lighter! :) Follow the curious and instinctive nature!
However, being stared at, especially for a prolonged amount of time or very frequently by one person in particular, can cause discomfort to those subjected to it.
So you showing that you know they are staring you by trying to over exaggerate your discomfort e.g fiddling with your pencil/hair/ book.. or looking shyly away, May actually push him to come over to you or change the way he's trying to convey his message to you!
But I'm sure that he likes you and that he started to feel really strong for you like ( in love type) and then he could not understand his own feelings and felt scared for a while! Not wanting to mess up things he distanced himself but obviously he's into you that's why he can't stop staring or waving at you! Soooo!!!! i think that you've got an admirer rather! Don't worry! It'll be OK!!!
i REALLY hope that this works out for you! Muah, Love. God Bless! :)
Boys as a matter of fact tend to take time when they think they want to get into a serious relationship...
The act of staring implies a visual focus, where the subject of the gaze is objectified. The notion of staring also implicates the looker in constructing themselves as a subject. They might be wanting to make themselves notice.
If staring happens continuously, they want to check on your activities , knowing you better but from far.. normally guys do that when they really don't won't to spoil things with girls and want to know the girl beforehand so that they don't miss out a chance to amaze you!
Staring someone normally pressurises the one being stared to look back. It might just be another way to win your attention. Especially when you do stare back and they continue staring or smile lightly with their eyes!
Since he quickly looks away it might mean that he doesn't want you to know that he has been looking which means that he likes you but doesn't want to make a step. That's just because they are afraid to do something wrong and be rejected by you.
Again try talking to him. Throw your self-respect for a while and talk to him(hard perhaps but worth it as it may help you know what to do: wait for him, forget him, move on or befriend him etc..) At least you would feel lighter! :) Follow the curious and instinctive nature!
However, being stared at, especially for a prolonged amount of time or very frequently by one person in particular, can cause discomfort to those subjected to it.
So you showing that you know they are staring you by trying to over exaggerate your discomfort e.g fiddling with your pencil/hair/ book.. or looking shyly away, May actually push him to come over to you or change the way he's trying to convey his message to you!
But I'm sure that he likes you and that he started to feel really strong for you like ( in love type) and then he could not understand his own feelings and felt scared for a while! Not wanting to mess up things he distanced himself but obviously he's into you that's why he can't stop staring or waving at you! Soooo!!!! i think that you've got an admirer rather! Don't worry! It'll be OK!!!
i REALLY hope that this works out for you! Muah, Love. God Bless! :)