What's up everyone! This week I wanted to just talk about my top 8 biggest turn offs for people in general. I definitely am not perfect & I'm some of these things at times BUT I try my best not to be :) What's your biggest turn off and why?
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1. Bad Communicators
I really like to have a good conversation. I really like to ask what’s up with them, how
4. Mean
I don’t like people who are meeaaann! And not nice! Especially on social media! Some people can't just love others for who they are and need to leash others good-hearted spirits. They label other people. They just won't stop, or when people are so fake and just use people for popularity, it makes me so numb! It's just so annoying of how they act.
No, please just create own self! Every day! Every moment of the day! Be You! BeYoutiful! XD Don’t just be the sheep that follows the random shepherd! Especially a grumpy, domineering and ugly shepherd! :3
So, these were the 8 biggest turn offs when it comes to people in general. It doesn't mean that I hate them. It just means that I don't particularly adore these qualities in myself and themselves.
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Iam Aehr!
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1. Bad Communicators
I really like to have a good conversation. I really like to ask what’s up with them, how
they are doing, contribute to their little happiness, up lift their moods. And
I like it when they ask me the same things. You know, just a good conversation.
It could literally just be about trees or Bakugan- I don’t care. I just like
people who can talk, keep the interaction flowing and communicate.
2. The Not-So-Ambition
I don’t like it when people have a lack of ambition. It just bothers me, I have a whole
bunch of thing I want to do with my life so when someone else doesn't have
those things it just like no- you can’t not have something you’ll accomplish or
achieve in your life. Seriously, goal-less people are a major turn off. At
times people come off like they don’t really care. They don’t have any passion!
There’s just no sense of trying to be or trying to accomplish. People can be
very apathetic and content to just sit around and don't want to go and explore
the world.
Be ambitious! Be passionate!
Want things! Do something with your life! Make it worthwhile for goodness sake!
3.
Narcissistic
See! Everyone matters and you can’t just talk about yourself all the time! Especially when you act like you are better then everyone around them. I get it, you are better at this than
me.. Please can we enjoy the rest of the evening without your selfish conceded
ego now?
4. Mean
I don’t like people who are meeaaann! And not nice! Especially on social media! Some people can't just love others for who they are and need to leash others good-hearted spirits. They label other people. They just won't stop, or when people are so fake and just use people for popularity, it makes me so numb! It's just so annoying of how they act.
I think that everybody should calm down and just be nice to people. There’s a time and
place to put people in their place. So you do not need to do it all the time!
It’s soooo easy to be nice to be people! So just be nice to people! Cm’on! Like
right now, you could be nice and give this is article a thumbs up and comment
one of your turn offs when it comes to people in general! :P
5.
Judgmental and
Discriminatory
People who judge others and are racist, sexist, homophobic, stereotypical etc: -_-.
Wherever I see someone who goes against something which is not even attacking
or harming them; I just awkwardly walk away like bye...I don't like you...
Leave!! Just people who don't respect other people's choices and being-ness. Appreciate differences! Let them be who they are and just carry on with your own life. They don't judge you so why judge them? It's not like they're any different! Basically we all just try to make the best of it and we all just want to be happy so why make it any harder for anyone else?? Life's complicated enough without discrimination! Let’s just all live life and be nice to one another and happy ^.^ (I have something against smokers, alcoholics and drug abusers in general though. :3)
6.
Simple and Bland
I don’t know about you but I
don’t understand people who are too simple. It’s like there’s no adrenaline, no
spice and no new twists! Go explorrreee! To crazy things! Don’t be the Arjun
Kapoor of the gang! Have thoughts! Have opinions! Express them! Share them!
Become a complex individual! It’s much better! Trust me!
7.
The Followers
When people follow other
people instead of standing up for their own: :/ .No, please just create own self! Every day! Every moment of the day! Be You! BeYoutiful! XD Don’t just be the sheep that follows the random shepherd! Especially a grumpy, domineering and ugly shepherd! :3
8.
Those who belittle other
people
About this one, I just don’t like it when
someone intentionally makes someone feel bad about themselves. For any reason.
Whether it’s for intelligence, talents, opinions; whether it’s their jobs or
direction they are going in life. It doesn’t really matter. It’s not great to see people making others
feel bad about the decisions that they make. Seriously, sometimes it’s good to
much mind your own business.So, these were the 8 biggest turn offs when it comes to people in general. It doesn't mean that I hate them. It just means that I don't particularly adore these qualities in myself and themselves.
Comment down below to share your own ''Turn Offs'' and Subscribe for more such articles!
Until next time,
Much Love,
Iam Aehr!