Not all dreams come true. We all have that one dream that we
keep close to our heart, guarded against the outside world and its harshness.
We talk about this dream with only close people because they are the only one
who will understand and not judge or pass silly and nasty comments about it.
That dream may be about you obtaining the job you desire the
most or buying your own house or something
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But then it could be bad when infatuation is not mutual. It
worsens when you come to know that your crush holds negative thoughts about you
or already has someone special in his life. This is the moment when you see
your dreams and your imaginary lovey duvey world crumbling into pieces! You feel
the hurt, the anger, the envy, the resentment, the jealousy all at the same
time! You want to lash out, smash everything around you –But at the same time you
want to curl yourself into a ball and cry yourself to sleep to escape this
cruel world! This is when you realize that you have been building castles over
castles in the air. As time passes you start to feel alone, you start doubting
yourself, your capabilities, your character! You start to question yourself
“What’s wrong with me? Am I so ugly? Why not me? Do I have to change for him to
notice me and love me?” Your insecurity
starts eating you away gradually.
But then you have to realize that you are young and
beautiful in your own way! You have a long way to go, things to achieve and a
personal mark to leave in this ever-changing world. You have your own identity;
what people think of you does not define you. If a boy has to love you then he
loves you the way you are, if you are asked to change then it is not love but
rather a compromise. You must divert your
mind from your crush, don’t let your world revolve around him! You have to
always bear in mind that there are things that hold more importance than a boy
who is enjoying his life while you are despairing in a corner! Even though your crush or people out there do not
like you value you, you have to realize that there are some people who adore
you just the way you are.
You mean the world to your parents-to your closest friends!!
With time wounds heal. It is difficult at the beginning to forget the past and
move on but if you try, you will see that it is worth it! Give it a try! A
bright new life is waiting for you! Stop complaining and stop doubting
yourself! Build up your confidence! Spend time with your girlfriends, cherish
the moments, and capture the memories! Lose yourself in the joy and happiness
of being surrounded by your close friends and relatives! Laugh till you feel
your cheeks starting ache! Enjoy your life! Kya pata kal ho na? Why cry and wait for a boy? You are
a princess after all! Crying is not in our nature! We, girls are beautiful,
brave and independent! We don’t need boys to live our life. (Even though we are
all waiting for this Charming Knight to come and sweep us off our feet ;)."I don’t know what to think any longer. At times, you’re this sweetheart and at times you just decide to stay quiet...It makes me feel bad. Your late replies make me feel unwanted. I wish that you could the one messaging first! I swear, My heart skips a beat each time I hear my Inbox Notification shrilling into life!"
