What does it mean if my crush doesn't chat me first on facebook?
Me and my crush talk in person on a daily basis. Him being my classmate and all. Some of my classmates were saying that he and I have a different kind of closeness and some even said that my crush said that he likes me. What I worry about is, he likes and comments (Yeah I know, I stalk but I can't help it) other girls' pictures and posts and not even one of mine. It makes me wonder, is it a sign that he doesn't like me back? I tried chatting him first on facebook one time, he was fast to reply so I'd consider that our conversation went well but after that, he just...doesn't chat me at all. I'd be grateful if someone would answer my question. Thanks for reading this.
Best AnswerAsker's Choice
1) Ego Game
2) Not trying to seem clingy or desperate
3) Wants to know if you like him enough to start the Conversation first, trying to test your interest level
4) Wants to leave you hanging so as to see if you comment on it during your upcoming conversation
5) He's busy. It's normally that.
2) Not trying to seem clingy or desperate
3) Wants to know if you like him enough to start the Conversation first, trying to test your interest level
4) Wants to leave you hanging so as to see if you comment on it during your upcoming conversation
5) He's busy. It's normally that.
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Cant tell if my crush is shy or not interested?
I have a crush on a girl in my Physics class. We are bith in uni and i sit next to her in class. I really like her and she is the closest to a perfect girl and i would love to date her. The problem is i cant really tell if she is interested in me or not. At the start of the semester we didnt talk much, if at all but we had to work together so i sayrted talking to her. Whenever i talked to her, she would avoid eye contact, but smile at me. She also spend the entire class running her hands through her hair or fidgeting with her phone. A few weeks later, we started walking together, talking after class, but during class she would seem uninterested and not try to extend the convo or initiate it either. Then we had a week long break and i changed seats a few times and she would always sit next to me, but then after class ended she would pack up really quickly and walk away before i could catch up or act/walk weirdly if i did catch up. It almost seemed like she was avoiding me, but during class she started talking more trying to extend the conversation, even tgough she still didnt initiate it, she tried once and it was pretty awkward, since she didnt know ehat to talk about. She is also quiet and doesnt talk to anyone else except me, which makes me think she is shy, but i dont get why she suddenly started avoiding me after the break. We also had an exam last wk and she sat in front even though there were over 100 different tables, so that she could wish me luck for it.Best AnswerAsker's ChoiceI have been this girl.
I can actually see myself 3 years back in this description.
It was mostly me being attracted to this one guy that caught my eye. And I admit having dragged a crush on him for 6 months!
I am antisocial in the sense that I don't really talk to people. I actually never talked to boys. But weirdly I used to find it an essential thing to meet and great him whenever we made eye contact. He used to sit in front of him, and out of the ocean of student, I would exchange answers only with him.
But then, I used to limit the our conversations at a point in time because I thought that it was taking me away from my studies and I thought I was not good enough for him. I mean who would be interested in someone who barely smiles to people or talk to girls even...
I wanted to protect my sanity in the process. I wanted to avoid him so that I don't build hopeless expectations...
But we continued to talk, casually... I know today that I was infatuated- (cont.)Asker's rating & comment
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Did he lose interest?
I stared too long at my crush accidently, and the next week he started staring at me a lot. But I'm really shy, so I didn't look at him for a week, and he slowly stopped noticing me. We sometimes stare at each other in the hallway when we just happen to make eye contact, but we just seem to never notice each other. Do you think he finds me attractive? Did I make him lose interest?Best AnswerHe's going to come back! :)
He might just be trying to figure out things about you or how to make a first step!..
As a matter of fact, if a guy really wants to grab your attention/ startle you or start a conversation with a girl they can can see themselves with, many take time to decipher the how's.
Just be a little patient, and try to smile with your eyes next time you see him down the hallway.. If he responds then smile literally- or just do it if you'r comfortable.
You could also kinda hunt him down on a social networking site and casually ask him about school stuff out of the blue.
He should be keen to share something with you (friendship/ relationship/ acquaintance) if he replies back. Continue building the whole thing from there.
If he actually lost interest. Pretend as if you did too for while. This will bring him back since he must have guessed you look up to him. Your sudden loss of interest may interest him and bang..!!!
Hope it helps because it did for me!