There's this girl that sits at the middle-back of the class (I sit at the very front). Whenever I turn to talk to my friends, in the corner of my eye I see her glance at me and dart her head away in another direction quickly then looks back at me looks down while putting her hair to the side, this happens ALL THE TIME. Why does she do this?
Note: we did talk a little last year (a lot during grad) and I did talk to her a little during the beginning of this year. Is she mad at me for not talking to her (ignoring me rather) or is she just too shy?
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People avoid eye contact so they don't have to engage in conversation. That way they can keep doing whatever they were doing without risk having to stop to talk when they really don't want to.
Being a girl i can say she knows that you can see her peripherally and although she might like you she doesn't want you to know about it so she looks away. Basically she's shy. People are normally shy in front of people they like. She might just be avoiding contact with you for fear of rejection. Or perhaps she likes you like in very much but is restraining herself from feeling so because she's got other more important thing to care about e.g. studies..
But her putting her hair aside shows that she's waiting for you to come up to her. Facial exposition is a type of body language that welcomes the person towards which the face is oriented!..
She's inviting you indirectly! :)
Perhaps that it's been a long while since you last talked to her and she feels you lost interest when you most certainly haven't. She might find it awkward to come up to you first so she's using small gestures to tell you that.
It doesn't sound like angryness to me though.
Being a girl i can say she knows that you can see her peripherally and although she might like you she doesn't want you to know about it so she looks away. Basically she's shy. People are normally shy in front of people they like. She might just be avoiding contact with you for fear of rejection. Or perhaps she likes you like in very much but is restraining herself from feeling so because she's got other more important thing to care about e.g. studies..
But her putting her hair aside shows that she's waiting for you to come up to her. Facial exposition is a type of body language that welcomes the person towards which the face is oriented!..
She's inviting you indirectly! :)
Perhaps that it's been a long while since you last talked to her and she feels you lost interest when you most certainly haven't. She might find it awkward to come up to you first so she's using small gestures to tell you that.
It doesn't sound like angryness to me though.
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- Just the answer I am looking for! Thank you, it really helps out to know what other people think about this situation since I don't even know at all.